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How to choose a fragrance you will actually wear
Start from what you already reach for, not from a personality type. Work out whether you want something that sits close to your skin or something that fills a room, notice the three or four notes you keep liking, then wear a small size for a week before you commit to a big one. That is the whole method, and it costs less than one blind buy.
Start with what you already like
The most useful information about your taste is already in your bathroom. Open the bottle you have nearly finished and the one that is still full, and ask what the difference is. Almost nobody can name it as a note, and almost everybody can name it as a feeling: the finished one is warmer, or fresher, or quieter than the other.
That is enough to start. Fragrance families are just a shorthand for those feelings, and ours are the ones you can browse: fresh, floral, woody, sweet, musky, spicy and a few more. Pick the two that describe the bottle you actually finished and you have narrowed 15 scents to a handful.
Eau de parfum, perfume oil, or something for the room
This is the choice that changes the most and gets explained the least. It is not a quality ladder. An oil and a spray of the same scent are doing two different jobs, and the right one depends on how much room you want the fragrance to take up.
| Format | How it wears | Reach for it when |
|---|---|---|
| Eau de parfum | Sprayed, diffuses off the skin, typically wears for most of a day | You want to be noticed walking in, or you want the scent to carry across a table |
| Perfume oil | Rolled on, sits close to the skin, can hold longer but projects less | You want it just for the people who lean in, or you are wearing it somewhere shared |
| Essential oils and room sprays | For a room, not for skin | You want the house to smell like something and your jumper not to |
If you are torn, the oil is the safer first buy for an office, a clinic, a classroom or anywhere the person next to you did not choose your fragrance. The spray is the better first buy if you have ever been told you cannot smell your own perfume, which usually means you like a bit of reach.
Notes, and why the first ten minutes are not the fragrance
A note pyramid is written in three tiers: top, heart and base. Top notes are what you get in the first few minutes, usually citrus, fruit or something green. The heart is what settles in behind them. The base is the dry-down, the part that is still there at dinner.
Top, heart, base. Not a boy band. Just the order the notes turn up in.
The practical consequence: the first ten minutes of any fragrance are the least representative ten minutes you will ever smell. Bright top notes are volatile by design and they burn off. If you decide in the shop, you are deciding on the part of the composition that will not be there by lunch.
Base notes are where the character usually lives, and they are worth learning by name. Vanilla, tonka bean, patchouli, sandalwood, cedarwood, amber and musk turn up again and again, and if you like two of them you will like a lot of things. The materials behind them are written up in the ingredient glossary, 42 entries standing behind the 77 notes in the range.
How to test it properly
Paper tells you what the fragrance smells like. Skin tells you what it will smell like on you, which is the only question that matters. Those two answers are often not the same, and the gap is why blind buys go wrong.
- Put it on clean, moisturised skin, on a pulse point. Dry skin lets a fragrance go faster than any bottle can compensate for.
- Do not rub it in. Rubbing breaks up the top of it and shortens the whole thing.
- Wear one at a time. Two on the same arm is an experiment with no result.
- Leave it alone for an hour before you judge it, and check it again in the afternoon.
- Wear it on a normal day, not a special one. The question is whether you like it on the way to work, not whether it is impressive at a wedding.
Give a shortlist a week each. You are not looking for the one that impresses you on day one. You are looking for the one you miss on the day you skip it.
Choose for the life you actually live
A loud evening scent is wasted if your days are back-to-back meetings and school pickup. Buy for the eleven ordinary days, not the twelfth good one.
- Work and shared rooms. Something close and quiet. Our small projection collection is the shortlist, and a perfume oil is the format.
- Evening and occasion. This is where the reach earns its keep. Try the date night grouping, in eau de parfum.
- Adelaide summer. Heat lifts everything. A scent that was pleasant in July can be twice as loud in January, so go lighter than you think and look at summer.
- Winter. Cold, dry air eats light fragrance. Fresh and aquatic scents thin out and vanish by lunch, which is what winter is for: warmer, sweeter, heavier in the base.
The season mismatch is the most common thing we see. Someone falls for something bright and aquatic in an Adelaide summer, wears it into winter, and decides the bottle was a dud. Nothing was wrong with the fragrance. It was being asked to work in air that was never going to carry it.
A shortlist to start from
Four scents that between them cover most of the range's territory, so you can find out which direction you are facing before you go deeper. Each one is also made as a perfume oil if you want the quieter version of the same thing.
Sweet and fruity, fresh and spiced, soft and musky, clean and salt-air. Start with a 10ml.
When not to buy it
A full bottle you do not wear is more expensive than three small ones that find you the thing you do. There are four times we would tell you to hold off.
- You have never smelled it. Order the 10ml first. It is the cheapest way to be wrong.
- It is a gift and you are guessing. A bundle or a gift card beats picking a full bottle for someone whose taste you cannot test.
- You loved it on someone else. That is the most reliable way to end up with a shelf of nearly full bottles. It smelled like that on their skin.
- It is the wrong season for it right now. Buying a heavy winter scent in December means six months of not wearing it, and by then you will have gone off it.
Once you have chosen, how you apply and store it does more for how it wears than the next bottle up will.
Questions people ask
How do I choose a perfume without smelling it first?
Read the note pyramid and the format rather than the description. Work out which base notes you already like, pick a scent that carries two of them, and buy the smallest size to test on your own skin. Every fragrance we make comes in a 10ml for exactly this reason.
What is the difference between eau de parfum and perfume oil?
An eau de parfum is sprayed, diffuses off the skin and typically wears for most of a day. A perfume oil is rolled on, sits closer to the skin and can hold longer while projecting less. Neither is stronger in a way that makes it better. They are different jobs.
How long should a fragrance last?
Long enough to get through your day, which for an eau de parfum usually means most of a working day on skin. Anyone quoting a fixed number of hours is quoting a marketing figure: skin type, weather, how much you applied and where you applied it all change the result.
Why does the same perfume smell different on my friend?
Because skin chemistry differs, and so does the nose doing the smelling. There is published evidence that a single change in one odorant receptor gene alters how strongly a person perceives a smell and whether they find it pleasant. It is a real difference, not a preference you can argue with.
How many fragrances do I actually need?
Fewer than you think. Most people wear two or three on rotation and forget the rest. One for ordinary days, one with more reach for the evening, and something for the season you are not in is a complete wardrobe for almost everybody.
Should I buy the biggest bottle for value?
Only once you are certain. A 50ml you love is better value than a 100ml you tolerate, and fragrance does age once it is open. Buy the size you will finish inside a couple of years.
Sources
- Keller et al., Nature (2007)Genetic variation in a single human odorant receptor changes how an odour is perceived and how pleasant it is judged to be.
- Neurobiology of Sensation and Reward, chapter on smell (NIH)Prolonged or repeated odour stimulation induces habituation and a decrease in odour sensitivity, which is why you stop smelling your own fragrance.
- IFRA Standards libraryThe industry standards restricting, specifying or prohibiting individual fragrance ingredients, which apply to every fragrance sold regardless of price.
Written by Olivia Clarke, Next Fragrance.